How Media Cinches Standards of Beauty

Social media continues to impact how people perceive themselves whilst setting unreasonable and harmful standards. No matter who you are, social media has something to critique. | Photo credits: letters2president.org

Social media continues to impact how people perceive themselves whilst setting unreasonable and harmful standards. No matter who you are, social media has something to critique. | Photo credits: letters2president.org

Content warning: the following article discusses both body image (in great detail) and eating disorders.

Looking into fogged up mirrors with my own eyes clouded as I pointed out every single distinction between my appearance and that of the women I’d see online was a past time I took part of often. I believed I was too skinny or too fat in the wrong places, and each day, another complaint was added to my mental list. My arms looked like I had robbed them off of someone else, like they didn’t belong to my body; my eyes were too small, no – too far apart; nothing was right about me. I was ugly.

Even now, I cannot get out of the mindset that my appearance determines my beauty.

Around 88% of women and 65% of men compare themselves to people seen on social media, with the majority of these people comparing themselves in an unfavorable way. This well-known issue has led to millions of people to suffer with self-esteem issues and to hate themselves, basing their self worth on what social media decides is “beautiful”.

However, even social media cannot make up its mind.

In the early 2000s, the ideal body was one of unrealistic skinniness – so much so that by 2007, eating disorder deaths in Hollywood were at their peak. In the period between 1999 and 2010, the number of deaths by anorexia or related issues in celebrities was equivalent to that of the rest of the 20th century.

Britney Spears in the early 2000s | Photo credit: Kevin Winters/Getty Images
Britney Spears in the early 2000s | Photo credits: Kevin Winters/Getty Images

The idealization of underweight models led to society as a whole glorifying self starvation to look like the people in their television screens. If you weren’t skinnier than what was recommended by doctors, could you even consider yourself pretty?

Later on, in the 21st century, this hyper-skinny ideal shifted into one of curviness, while still maintaining its unhealthy skinniness. This period that glorified fake tans and twig-like features was driven by celebrities like Heidi Klum, Kate Moss, and Nicole Richie.

Beyoncé at the 2001 movie awards | Photo Credits: Chris Weeks/Getty Images
Beyoncé at the 2001 movie awards | Photo credits: Chris Weeks/Getty Images

Following these trends was a continuation of this curvy yet still skinny body, yet now with ethnicities being chosen for romanticization. Models, actresses, singers, and other public figures who were seen as “exotic” saw a rise in popularity and idolization. Celebrities such as Beyoncé and Jennifer Lopez appealed to young women not only because of their figures (which met the curvy ideal of the time), but also because of their “mixed” appearance.

The picking and choosing of what ethnicities were to be considered as part of the beauty standard continued to shift with body standards. While the ideal body continued to be curvy (even morphing into what was considered “healthy curves”, losing the early 21st century’s desire to be skinnier than humanly possible), different aspects of ethnic features from various ethnicities took a rise in popularity. While the mixed appearances of Beyoncé and Jennifer Lopez were originally popularized partially for their inclusivity, the romanticization of other ethnic groups further led to impossible standards.

“Now every girl is expected to have Caucasian blue eyes, full Spanish lips, a classic button nose, hairless Asian skin with a California tan, a Jamaican dance hall ass, long Swedish legs, small Japanese feet, the abs of a lesbian gym owner, the hips of a nine-year-old boy, the arms of Michelle Obama, and doll tits,” said Tina Fey in her book, Bossypants.

Circa 2015, oversea influence on specifically American beauty standards became most prevalent.

A model in Harajuku fashion | Photo Credits: tokyofashion.com
A model in Harajuku fashion | Photo credits: tokyofashion.com

In 2018, beauty standards began diverging into separate “aesthetics”. With the rise of e-girls and e-boys on social medias such as TikTok – a style which has been heavily influenced by Harajuku and Igari themes, both of which originating in Asian culture – other subgenres arose. This period predominantly idealized skinny figures, though social medias began feigning plus size appreciation.

Image Credit: @linspiration on TikTok
Photo credits: @linspiration on TikTok

While the period of 2018 and beyond was considered most inclusive for people who didn’t fit within the unrealistic standards, social media influencers continued to have the same, skinny bodies with little diversity.

Even social media apps themselves added automatic filters aside from optional filters that add makeup, give users high cheekbones, and feed into the growing amalgamations of unhealthy standards to change how you look. Filters have long been known to not only add makeup to people but to change the entire skeletal structure of their faces.

A photo from Ariana Grande's Instagram | Photo Credits: Ariana Grande/Instagram
A photo from Grande’s Instagram | Photo credits: Ariana Grande/Instagram

Along with this rise in diverse clothing styles came the rise of the monolid. The term “monolid” is a colloquial way of referring to an eye that only appears to have one eyelid fold, rather than a double lid. Monolids are most common in people of East Asian heritage – though this did not stop countless non-Asian celebrities to propound the romanticization of this ethnic feature. This sudden yet powerful wave of so-called “Asian fishing” had extreme effect on social media especially, with well known celebrities such as Ariana Grande having scandals regarding it.

Most recently, social media has continued the wave of body positivity with significantly more avail than that in 2018. Plus-size models have been popularized along with models of various ethnicities, and platforms such as TikTok have even become places for loving yourself.

Photo credits: The Charlatan
Body diversity in the media we consume is the first step to an improving self image | Photo credits: The Charlatan

However, in a time where my young, pre-teen self could not keep up with the overwhelming shifts between looking like a skinny Disney Princess and somehow managing the curves of a beauty icon like Beyoncé, I began to give up on feeling beautiful. My self-esteem, along with thousands of others just like me, plummeted because the girl who stared back at me from my mirror with those tear-stained eyes never looked like the Instagram models I’d seen online. In my eyes, tainted by filters on social media, I was never and would never be beautiful.

This constantly shifting beauty standard leads to beyond unhealthy standards. Whether you’re starving yourself to look like the petite actresses portrayed in the new-hit movie or googling “how to use a waist trainer” at age 16 so you could look like the singers in the newest and most popular songs, we will never be able to meet the ideal that we as a society have set for ourselves.

We have set ourselves up to fail in every definition of the word.